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In both videos below, the guy been tested and is been accused of Cheating, made it clear that "They are talking to someone, but not yet discuss been on boyfriend/girlfriend term " thus, they are 2 people in a Dating Relationship, but not on Dating term. Therefore, it doesn't count as they are dating exclusively, it doesn't even count as they are dating. Thus, it is not Cheating

The girl in the first video, she is less likely to become abusive relationship victim or to screw over some nice guy in an out of the blue middle age divorce proposal, because she understand it doesn’t count unless there are mutual consent been on Dating Term.

The girl within the second video, she is more likely to become abusive relationship victim or screw over some nice guy in an out of the blue middle age divorce proposal, because she doesn’t understand it doesn’t count unless there are mutual consent been on Dating Term

One interesting fact that Cupid came across while researching this book, is how lots of women that been through abusive relationship claim, they felt needing go through a period of healing, till ready for a new relationship.

While researching through for this book, Cupid also seen lots of women that been through abusive relationship felt this way.

In this instance Cupid decide to dig further, into this topic, but this is one topic that is hard to dig into.

However, Cupid soon found a pattern of behavior within their action. They all confuse Dating to be same as marriage. A lot of them, when been asked to talk more on this topic, some of them claim they felt not ready to enter a new partnership, due to spending years been manipulated, while other claim it is unfair to their new partner, while been so emotionally traumatized from the abusive relationship However, one thing all these women got in common, is confusing Dating to be same as marriage They frequently refer to been in a relationship as “Been Together” and refer to the person they are been in a relationship with as their “partner”. One woman in particular even refer to been in a relationship as in “Monogamy Commitment” A most interesting fact is, all of these women chose to use the term “partner” to describe the person they are dating, but none use the term “boyfriend”

Thus, it is not difficult to image these women felt they are not ready to be in a relationship. Even amount people that never been in an abusive relationship, why is it a bad idea running off to Vegas and married a complete stranger?

However, the problem is just because two people are in a relationship, doesn’t necessary mean they are romantically together or it mean they are each other’s partner, nor does it necessary mean “monogamy commitment” There are so many different types of relationships out there whether it is Marriage, Casual Dating, Serious Dating, Friends with Benefits, One night Stand, De facto Spouse, two week casual fling while on vacation. The list goes on and not all qualify as “Monogamy Commitment”, “Been Together” or “Partners”

But the follow up question soon become, do these women felt they are not ready for all sorts of relationships or is it just a situation where they confuse all relationship to be partners. If they are not confusing all relationships to equal partners, can there be relationships they felt that they are ready for? I would image certain types of relationship might benefit girls who are in abusive relationship, if they are able to do it. Off the top of my head, I start thinking of stories of pretty girls that are able to get guys to do stuff for them. So, if she wants to get out, if she is pretty enough to be able to get eight guys to help her, going home with her, to help her pack her suitcase and leave (because the abuser might get violent if catching her trying to leave, but if she come with eight guys, good chance he doesn’t dare to do anything.) that relationship can totally work to her advantage. Afterwards, to say thank you, if she felt comfortable, she can date one of the eight guys for a few months or if she felt not comfortable dating any of those guys, buy them a bottle of 20 years old scotch.

The issue of confusing Dating to be same as marriage and not understanding it doesn’t count as dating till mutual consent, seem to be getting worse in the west. In old school western movies, prior to the 1970s, they didn’t use to refer to two people that are Just Dating, as a Couple, but now, western media refer to all people that are Dating to be a Couple, regardless of circumstances. Until 20 years ago, the word “Partner” was reserved to be used, referring to two people that are either married or at least in a de facto relationship, when people are not yet married, they always use the political correct term, which is “boyfriend” or “girlfriend” but now, the term “partner” is frequently been used to describe two people that are dating, despite they are not de facto. And the term “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” is been used less and less. Even in terms of ex, the term ex-boyfriend and ex-girlfriend, is more and more frequently been replaced by the term ex-partner, despite they were just dating and are not even in a de facto relationship.

And to share a story with you, this is a real story. There was this Japanese girl that went to the US as an exchange student for one semester. While in the US, she starts flirting with this particular guy in one of her class a lot. After she returning to Japan, they still flirt within the exchanging emails. When, the American guy went to Japan to visit her, he discovered she got 2 boyfriends (open relationship) and he got very angry. The Japanese girl got really annoyed and said she never consent to been in a relationship with him. The American guy asked “what about all the flirting” and the Japanese girl replied “That was just kidding around between friends”

And to share a personal story with you. About 3 years ago, I went back to college to take a marketing course for work. Personally, I don’t like been on Dating Term with people, because I felt self-conscious about my employment history in my 20s, but that doesn’t stop me from flirting with girls I find attractive. Some of the girls flirt back, especially those without boyfriends. Most of the girls, got no issue with me flirting with other girls, especially the Asian girls. But there was this one particular Italian girl that is an exchange student, I guess she was seeking a casual fling and is always giggling when I am around and when I flirt with her, she flirts back. But realizing I flirt with other girls also she was really unhappy about it and doesn’t wants talking to me anymore. And I was thinking “What are you on about? You got a boyfriend back in Italy yourself” and didn’t talk her anymore, after that.

So, within the two westerners we see in these two stories, we see how the western view of confusing Dating to be same as marriage and not understanding it require mutual consent for it to qualify as Dating, influence their thought pattern. Where in Asia, people understand it only count as Dating with mutual consent and Dating isn’t sufficient to count as married, thus, casual flirting between multiple people that are not on Dating Term with anyone is pretty common and there are a small handful of girls that might be interest in casual sex. And even when been on Dating Term with a person, they still go out with their other crushes as just friends, providing they keep it none sexual and not on Dating Term and that only end, when he/she become Spouse with a person, usually involving their girlfriend move to a new country for him (with his consent), they got a baby together or when they actually got married.

An interesting fact, on an episode of the Tara Banks show, an India guy went to a bar to pick up random girls, he be flirting with a lot of different girls, despite he made it clear, “He is not looking for anything exclusive or serious” right from the beginning, the girls he approached got mix reactions. While been interview by the show, half of the girls that was originally interest in him, after seen him going to flirt with other girls, find him to be a sleaze and lost interest, while the other half find him to be confident and got more interest. 

Also, it is important to note, in term of the culture practice of the “Dating Culture” there are both good Dating Culture Practice and Bad Dating Culture Practice. Whether such culture practice is good or bad, is determined based on its relationship with the code of ethic, peace, harmony and justice. If it breaks the code of ethic, don’t follow such culture practice. This is important to note, because, due to the western world confusing Dating to be same as marriage and doesn’t understand mutual consent require for it to count as Dating and it seems to be getting worse, we are also starting to see the emerging of a Dating Culture where been in a Dating Relationship count as been on Dating Term and been on Dating Term count as Spouse. That is a very bad, unhealthy and sickening Dating Culture that under no circumstances should you follow and should disobey regardless of circumstances.

Due to the existing culture practice of “Dating to be Exclusive” and an “Agreement to Date to mean an agreement to Date Exclusively” and fail to understand mutual consent is require to qualify to been on Dating Term, we are also seen an emerging of a Dating Culture for been in a Dating Relationship to be exclusive, regardless of whether you are on Dating Term. This is also a very unhealthy Dating Culture that should not be obey. The “For Dating to be Exclusive” and “agreement to date to mean an agreement to Date Exclusively” culture, is usually a healthy culture, due to on one hand, it help decrease the rate of STD. On the other hand, you can still be on Dating Relationship with other people, providing it is not on Date Term and it is none sexual. But the idea of been in a Dating Relationship to be exclusive, mean you can’t even go out with other people you like as just friends, even if the two of you are not on Dating Term and keep it none sexual. That is as bad as running off to Vegas and marry a complete stranger. Such Dating culture should not be obeyed and should be ignored.

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Thus, it is only nature, after the formation of the Abraham religion, 666 would be seen as the ultimate evil.

In Europe, the Abraham religion eventually took power, with rise of Emperor Constancy that wanted to use Christianity to secure his power, by combining State and religion and make himself the Catholic Church’s Pope. In the Middle East, it was largely due to the constant war between Persians and Europe, allowing the rise of the Arabs in the region of modern Saudi Arabia, due to trade from Asia to Europe is made difficult by the war and the Persian monarchy of the time practice incest, where marriage between brother and sister, father and daughter was the norm, creating generations of incompetent rulers. So, when the Muslims come, the Persians crumble.

Abraham religion did reached Asia, including combining with a distorted version of Buddhism, however, all their revolt to seize control, in Asia fail.

Example include the White Lotus rebellion between the 10th~12th century that combine the Abraham religion with a distorted version of Buddhism, that was widely rejected by the Buddhist community, the revolt attempt of the White Lotus cult, was defeated and the White Lotus cult destroyed, but left China vulnerable to the Mongol invasion. The next recorded attempt of Yahweh follower revolt is the Ming cult 明教. The Ming cult was been defeated, firstly with Chinese military leaders ally with the Ming cult army to overthrow the Mongol rule of China, the Chinese General 朱元璋 later the first Emperor of the Ming dynasty even spread a rumor that he is the reincarnation of Jesus, here to lead humanity against the Mongols, which is the army of Satan. Despite promising the Ming cult to combine church and state, 朱元璋 betray the Ming cult to the Mongols, when they outlive their usefulness and never deliver on the promise of combining Abraham religion with state, instead he further reinforce Confucius ideology, as the tool to suppress the Ming cult and later to prevent Abraham religion trying to launch another holy war, leaving China vulnerable to Mongol invasion again, the Ming dynasty government not only outlaw the Ming cult, but executed all their leaders and many of their followers and burn their text. Since then, the Ming cult become a mere memory in history.

There was another attempt in Japan, where Japanese that converted to Catholicism, revolt by the pope’s order but fail, in the aftermath, Japan refuse all trade and contact with foreign nation except China, until the 19th century. The final recorded attempt, was the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom rebellion in the 19th century China, over 1 million people died in this war, the rebel leader claim to be the second coming of Christ, also. The rebellion was been put down and led to wide spread anti-Christian feelings in China for the next 50 years, it also made China vulnerable to the European colonial power.

However, because every revolt attempt of the Abraham religions in Asia fail, pagan religion continues to be mainstream in Asia till date and co-evolved with Buddhism, as the mainstream religion.

All Pagan religions throughout the world, share a common root and that is Africa. When the first human left Africa they bring with them, their religion believes and in each part of the world they evolved independently, when we look at each Pagan religion in the world, we can find many of their religion practice to be extremely similar and many of their gods, are the same. One of the most significant is astrology, where gypsy astrology and Chinese astrology are extremely similar.

Thus, religion practice of Eastern Pagan religion can also be adapted to be used, in western Pagan religions.

So, today, we will be teaching you a method regarding how the Chinese Pagan religion Taoism communicate with a god. And how to use this method to communicate with the gods of Western Pagan religion. This is a simple process, those who are not priests or priestesses can do. This is a religion practice, regarding how to ask the gods a question.

This is by using an instrument call 擲筊 which to the best knowledge of this article, does not have an English name, so, we will translate it directly from Chinese call it "throwing Zhixiao". Like a penny, a Zhixiao have a head side and a tail side. Zhixiao comes in pairs, with two identical Zhixiao, as shown in the image on this link

As an alternative to Zhixiao, something else that got both a head side and a tail side, can be use as substitution e.g. two coins.

When asking the gods, a question, ask the gods in a prayer, but hold the Zhixiao between your palms, afterwards, open your palm and let it drop to the ground.

If you get one head and one tail, as shown in the image on this link, and you manage to get one head and one tail, three times in a row, it means the gods say yes.

The video on this link can demonstrate to westerners how to ask the gods a question, using the Taoism method

Since I made such a big talk about why I think the bible is garbage. I thought I share these 2 videos with you

Video One (The Anti-Christ)

Video Two the Polytheistic Origins of Christianity and Judaism

What 666 Really Means in Numerology

Why Are You Seeing 666?

In asking for the approval of the God Cupid via Pagan Ritual, the following is the question is asked to Cupid, in the prayer

Dear Cupid,

Do, you approved of the Relationship advice provided by this book?

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In my opinion the bible is garbage, considering some of the stuff, the bible teaches, including

(1) Mass murder of gays

(2) it is alright for a man to rape a woman, if he is willing to pay her father 40 pieces of silver, but if a woman have pre-marital sex, they execute her for been a slut.

(3) genocide of educated that got knowledge not from the bible and so on.

I believe Christianity is responsible for the 1000 years of dark ages, 1000 years of meaningless inquisition and the 100 years of black plague. Despite plague also happen in other parts of the world, plague is always put under control very quickly. And despite lacking modern technology, neither the ancient Romans nor the ancient Chinese was of 3rd world status, for most of its history, ancient Rome and ancient China has been of 1st world status. Yet, Christian Europe saw the dark ages that was an ultra-3rd world region. The Age of Enlightenment only made possible with firstly the introduction of separation of church and state, follow by separation of church and education and for the 1st time since the fall of the Roman Empire, the west reverts back to 1st world status. If die of old age, a human can live well into their 80s, yet, the average life expediency of Christian Europe was 35. South American turtles despite not having human intelligence, still live well over 100 years, proving without following the teaching of the bible, even unintelligent turtles can do better than Europe during the era of following the bible’s teaching.

The series of BS is even documented within the bible. For example, according to the bible the Anti-Christ is literally anything not from the Abraham religion, claiming that everything not from Yahweh to be evil. The killing of witches is even more BS, basically it just says any form of magic from the Abraham religion is from the Christian god, thus it is good and the rest must be from Satan and is evil. For example, the bible order the killing of fortune teller calling them evil, yet, the Christian church itself got fortune teller of their own that they refer to as "profit of the Lord" yet, because these fortune tellers and astrologist are from the Christian institution, they say they are good, while fortune tellers and astrologist not from the church, the bible accuse them of been evil, because they are not of the Christian institution. Adding to the irony, in the ancient world, people are not able to differentiate between science and magic, due to knowledge limitation, they understand rain fall from the sky, but they doesn't understand why, they see the water have higher and lower tied, but they can't understand why, thus, refers to it as magic, thus, what ancient people refer to as witches, a lot of time, it is what we modern people refer to as doctors and scientist. As a result, this ordering to execute magic practitioner by the church, is the first step to the downfall of western society to the dark ages, as it is really the mass genocide of those educated in arena of medicine, chemistry, biology, physic, architectural and mathematics.

proverb 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;

And despite the bible claim life can only achieve maximum benefit following the bible’s teaching, what history prove is very much the opposite way around where the ancient Rome and ancient Chinese or even South American turtles that never follow the bible, was doing much better, even during the 19th century till mid-20th century where China was a weak 2nd world region, it wasn't as bad as Europe during the Dark Ages. The Age of Enlightenment only made possible with the separation of State and Education from the church. The only dynasty in all of human history that follow the bible’s teaching saw 1000 years of dark ages and considering it is a 1000 years old dynasty thus, got 1000 years to get it right, but still fail to get it right, with even South American wild turtles, able to have a higher standard of living, despite lacking intelligent, it speak much about the teaching of the bible.

Thus, you can image why I think the bible is garbage and the Christian value of (1) Yahweh is the one and only true god and (2) Yahweh is always right, to be as much as complete BS, compare to Communism, maybe even more of a BS, considering under the Mao Communist economic system, only 10% of China's population starve to death, while under the teaching of the bible, 90% of Europe's population died.

Hence, you can image why, when it comes to religion, I am more in favor of Paganism, Atheism and Buddhism.

Although, I should point out, my birth sign is literally 666, the number of the beast of the Anti-Christ, as I am literally born on the 6th of June 6AM. Although I must point out, in pre-Judaism era, in ancient Pagan religions, Yahweh was originally the god of Chaos in Mediterranean faith and the number 666 was the symbol of the god of peace, thus, the enemy of the god of Chaos. He was originally known as Yahweh the god of war and chaos in ancient Babylon and Set, the god of dessert, jealous and Chaos, in ancient Egypt.

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Can’t tell if a guy is Creepy from an objective point of view? Ask your Dad or Brothers

As men, we understand men a bit better, thus, we can better tell, if a guy is creepy from an objective point of view. In addition, when your mother and sister try to judge whether a guy is creepy, they might also be looking at it from an emotional point of view, thus, how he makes them felt romantically.

However, guys can also make mistake, for example, some men might have certain prejudice and maybe the guy you consider to be “not creepy” from a subjective view, knows how to put on an act, in front of other men and fool them. So, it is still possible that he might form an “objective opinion” for a man to be “not creepy” when he is “creepy” or “worse than creepy” and to form an “objective opinion” for a man to be “creepy” or “worse than creepy”, when he is “not creepy at all”!

In this instance Cupid’s opinion is that, when it comes to avoiding domestic abuse, it is better to be wrong then sorry, so, if your father or your brother disapprove, don’t date him, regardless of circumstances. If you find a guy to be “creepy” but isn’t sure whether it is an “objective opinion” or “subjective opinion” just don’t date the guy.

And all those talk about overly emotional girls getting into abusive relationship due to seen a guy that is "worse then creepy" from a objective point of view, to be "not creepy at all" from a subjective point of view, remind me of this MTV that came out when I was a senior in high school. If this MTV is a real story, wow, that is another abusive relationship waiting to happen, a few months or a few years down the track. LOL

A Pagan ritual: How Girls can ask the god of Love Cupid for Guidance about their Love Life.

An image of Cupid from Ancient Greek.

Sculpture of Cupid from Ancient Rome

Sculpture of Cupid as a child from Ancient Rome (More in coalition with our modern image)

Written by J.W Yang

Having been using Cupid as my pen name for this entire book. I cannot leave without telling you about a Pagan ritual regarding how girls can ask the God Cupid for guidance regarding to their love life.

Since Abraham religion’s rise in the western world, there was continue suppression, of other religion believe and forcing people to worship Yahweh (Name of Christian/Islam/Judaism god within its original pagan root) as the one and only true god. In religions of the Yahweh faith, it refers to all other gods as evil demonic false gods, pretending to be god, AKA Satan (And that is why I identify myself as a Satanist.)

Personally, I never been a big fan of the Abraham religion, when I was a kid, some of the stuff they teach in Sunday School, make me feel sick in the stomach and I think the two fundamental Christian value of thinking (1) Yahweh is the one and only true god and (2) Yahweh is always right, is a huge pile of horse crap. And at home I will be on the ground kicking and screaming, refusing to go to Sunday School, until my mum gave up or I told on my mum to my grandma that say she doesn't care if my mum want to convert to Christianity, but she can't force me to convert with her. And when I do go to Church, I won't hesitate to curse out at the priest on his BS, in the middle of the sermon, despite I was only 8 years old.

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PROOF: Women Think Ugly Men Are Creepy

Is it Creepy or Romantic?

Guys that are more dating experienced are more likely to find a situation where, the girls they are interest in are less likely to find them creepy, but it is usually the girls that they are not interest in, but somehow think, he is interest in her that finds him creepy. Why? If a guy is for example a successful womanizer that just wants to play the field and never wants to settle down, he is more likely to know that for girls, it is more about how a guy make her feel romantically and know how to avoid letting a girl felt for him to be creepy, from her subjective point of view. As a result, it is just like, when a girl is going out with a guy on a first date, she is more likely to present the best version of herself, spending much time to look nice, when a successful womanizer comes across a girl that he is interest in, he is more likely to present himself in the manner that women are romantically interest in, via knowing the sort of feeling she is looking for and know what to do, to avoid falling under the creepy category, within a woman's subjective view. But just like when a girl, if she is meeting with a guy, she is not at all romantically interest in, she is not going to put that effort into her appearance for him, when a womanizer came across e.g. an ugly girl that he is not interest in, he is not going to make sure that he is presenting himself in a manner that make him seem "not creepy", from a woman's subjective point of view. In this instance, if the ugly girl for some reason, think the womanizer is romantically interest in her, all in a sudden, he falls into the "creepy" category.

And one type of girls, all guys need to consider filing a restraining order against

Cupid doesn't mean to sound rude but, (1) ugly girls are more likely to misevaluate a situation to be a guy that doesn't even know she is alive, to be romantically interest in her, because ugly girls won't be getting guys, trying to chat her up or ask her out as often, they are much less experienced then their pretty counterpart in this arena, as a result, they are more likely to think a guy that doesn't even know she is alive, to be romantically interest in her (2) when a girl is more overly emotional, she is more likely to make a determination in regards to whether a guy is "creepy", based on that subjective point of view and the more emotional she is, the more likely she will be effected by that perception.

As a result, if you found, an ugly girl for some reason think you are interest in her, when you don't even know she is alive and put you into the "creepy" category and to make matter worse, this ugly girl is an overly emotional and irrational person, you need to be careful and maybe consider filing a restraining order against her, if you can.

The most dangerous type of ugly girl, is those who believe you are interest in her so much, she refuses to believe otherwise, chances are she is a narcissist looking to fulfil her desire for admiration, usually when a person believe, wants to believe or want others to believe in something badly enough, they evaluate everything in a manner in coalition with what they believe in, by looking for example and constructing opinion in favor of those believe. So, it is possible she would evaluate this to be a situation where you are stalking her, simply due to you catch the same 7:30 AM bus to work like her, despite you don’t even know she is alive and give her no reason to think, you even know she exist. And she would try to persuade people to believe this is a situation where you are stalking her, she might even go to the cops and try file a police report against you for stalking her, over this.

Everything you say or do, she would try to evaluate it as something in coalition with sexual obsession with her, she might even go as far as sit close to you on the bus and convince herself or others that the reason you are sitting so close to her, is due to you try to sit close to her, due to your sexual obsession with her. If you sneeze loudly, she would say this is your attempt to try initiate conversation with her. If you are talking with your girlfriend on the cell phone, she would say you are throwing her sex signals and won’t take no for an answer.

An ugly female narcissist that is a bad person, is every inch just as dangerous as a narcissist beta male thug, in their own way, in their quest to fulfil that narcissist ego for admiration.

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In fact, while women might find nerdy trade amount her boyfriend to be a bit of a turn off, due to the nerd stereotype include been a none masculine male, for girls, been a bit of a nerd, but not too much of a nerd might boost her sex appeal, because the stereotype is nerds are smart and nice. Hence you can see, for men, sexual attraction is rational orientated, even if it is happening on a subconscious level.

For women, romantic love is more of an emotional thing. So, it is how a guy make her feel. For example, despite while looking for a serious relationship, women are more inclined to look for men that are rich, nice or funny, which are rational choice, they also might look for a father figure, which is more of an emotional choice. It becomes even more obvious when looking for a causal relationship they look for a romantic guy, due to the romantic feel associate with it, some girls look for cool guys or bad boys, because they think it brings a sense of excitement. (Cupid isn’t sure, is bad boy a substitution for cool guys or cool guys a substitution for bad boys. Personally, Cupid think bad boys is a substitution for cool guys, because, Hitler and Osama Bin Laden never got voted the sexiest men alive.)

What that mean is, when women talk about whether a guy is “creepy” when it is from a subjective point of view, it is more associate with how he makes her romantically feels. Cupid heard story of girls that find a guy to be “creepy”, when he asked her out and she say no and the guy just say “alright then, but I only ask a girl out once, so I am not asking you out again. I want to take a nap, don’t bother me, now.” And put a hat over his face and try to sleep, all in a sudden, the girl really wants talking to him and gone from her original state of not wanting to talk to him, to become a little chatter box that won't stop bothering him! This is also why, many relationship experts claim the best way to get a girl, is not to actually try pick up girls, but socialize with them as just friends. This is because, you might fall under the “creepy” category, from her romantic view, but, if it is just as a friend, chances are she won’t feel that way about you and on a second impression, you might not fall under the “creepy” category in a romantic view.

But that is what make it so dangerous, sometime a guy that a woman finds to be “creepy” from a subjective point of view is “not creepy” if we look at it from an objective point of view. On the other hand, a man that a woman finds to be “not creepy” from a subjective point of view, can be “very creepy” from an objective point of view.

Take bad boys as an example. Girls that are interest in bad boys. From a subjective point of view, most likely, she won’t at all, find him “creepy”, but when we look at it from an objective point of view, bad boys are worse than creepy.

So, the question becomes when a woman claim for a man to be “creepy” is that a “subjective opinion” or an “objective opinion” while, women that are more rational, might rely more heavily on her “objective opinion” in regards to whether a guy is “creepy”, a woman that is more emotional are more likely to be making that determination based on an emotional decision.

Hence, when all of her friends and family can see this guy is bad news, she can’t see it and enter the relationship with him and won’t know she is in trouble, until it is far too late.
This plays a major role regarding why, so many women ended up in abusive relationship, mostly the more emotional ones. (Cupid got a confession, I don’t really care much about overly emotional people, they are nut bag crazy) Of course, Cupid is not saying “just because a guy is not creepy from an objective point of view, you need to go out with him.”, I mean true, a guy that is “not creepy” from an objective point of view, might be a very nice guy, but if you find him “creepy” from a subjective point of view, most likely you are not attracted to him and you shouldn’t need to force yourself to date a guy that you are not interest in, this is both unfair to you and to him. Instead pick guys that is not creepy to you from both the objective and subjective point of view.

Cupid remember a social experiment. A girl was sitting on a park bench along, during the night, nobody around, a pretty creepy setting, right? A guy wearing a dark color jumper and jean and a baseball hat, approaches her and tries chatting her up. The girl right away told him to “f*** off”, now consider the circumstances, it makes sense the girl would told him off, it is a possible, dangerous situation, especially considering the environmental setting, who can hear her scream and its dark, so if he e.g. rape her, would people even notice? So, the guy wearing the blue jumper, jeans and baseball hat left. But what he did next is that, he took off his blue jumper and replace it with a cool black leather jacket and a motorcycle helmet and approaches the girl again. Not seen his face, now the girl only sees a cool guy, all in a sudden, everything she know she need to be careful of, she forgot and is giggling, like a little school girl and almost seem as if, she can’t wait to jump in bed with him. It is only when the guy asked the girl about a previous guy that also approached her that she rejected and told her, he is that guy and when she won’t believe him, he took off his helmet and revealed his face, only then, did the girl in a fright, quickly jumped off his motorcycle.

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Additional Resource Three: Find him Creepy or not Creepy? Is it a “Subjective opinion” or “Objective opinion”? Confusing the two, increase domestic abuse rate.

When it comes to Dating, one thing we are all too familiar with, are girls saying “This guy is creepy”, hence she rejected him. But the question is, whether that is an “Objective opinion” or “Subjective opinion”? At some instance, it might be an “Objective opinion” in other instance it could be a “Subjective opinion” and that subjective view in regards to whether a guy is “creepy” or “not creepy”, is something that cause lots of abusive relationship. Why? Let Cupid explain.

When it comes to sexual desire and romantic love, men and women work on completely different wave length. This is basic neuro psychology. For men, they use the logical and analytical side of their brain. For women, they use the emotional side of their brain. So, when it comes to sexual attraction men actively seek for the best and most logical choice, usually the person that make the best mother or the most ideal mate to him, male sexual attraction is all oriented towards that on a subconscious level. Common characteristic men find attractive in a woman include

(1) fit and healthy: Because girls that are fit and healthy got more energy, thus, helps make her a better mother (pop culture mistaken it as guys like skinning girls, because most fit and healthy women are slightly skinny)

(2) long legs: Long legs are better for escaping predators and make them better hunters, if the mother got long legs, first she could pass those gene to her children and it also make her a better protector of her children

(3) wide hips: women with wider hips are less likely to have complication at child birth, this is especially considering, the women vagina didn’t evolved to accommodate exiting of a human baby’s giant head, it is design to accommodate the smaller head of other less intelligent species, this mean increase danger in child birth, how danger? To give you an idea, until the 1920s, 1/10 baby died while been born. Uncover grave yard from China dated back to 3000 years ago found, 1/2 grave belongs to a new born baby that died while been born. This is a reason, people use to get married as teenagers, many get married as young as fourteen or fifteen, because, chances are half the time you get pregnant your baby would die, while been born, so, unless you want no kids, you cannot afford to wait till you are in your 20s or 30s till getting married. (although pop culture once mistaken it as, men like women with big ass.)

(4) big breast: women with big breast provide more milk, it is found, men that was breast fed as a baby, are more interest in big breast, due to their subconscious remember big breast means more breast milk. Men that weren’t breast fed as a baby, are not so interest in big breast

(5) well educated: women that are well educated got a trade it means, in the event of the father’s death, she better picks up the father’s role, as the children’s provider.

(6) rational: human emotions are irrational and unreasonable, for example, can you reason with a drunk person? And is your dream ever rational? Thus, while it is alright to be emotional under some circumstances, there are time where you can’t. That is also why, soldiers are trained to be emotionally detached. As a result, overly emotional people are more likely to make bad decision, due to emotional impulse.

(7) smart: when a girl is smart, she got better problem-solving skills, thus, make her a better mother

(8) nice: It is good assumption that been a good person make a girl a better mother.

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