The western world got the highest rate of bad and unhealthy relationships in the world and as a result the highest rate of middle age divorce and abuse to women in the world (also most political correctness insanity with protecting women from domestic abuse that in the long run only helps to enhance abuse towards women, by screwing over none abusive nice guys that got much to lose from the political correctness insanity, driving women into the arms of abusers, with more good guys rather staying single) This is because the western world got some very flawed idea about relationships. To effectively tackle the problems of high rate of bad and unhealthy relationships, we need to first understand what are these flawed views and change people's view on love, dating, marriage, cheating and ethic of relationship.

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(Page One) Topic One: The distorted western values that enhance Abusive Rate

Why the modern mainstream western attitude increases your chance of been in a bad and unhealthy relationship and miss out on your Mr. Right...

Monday, April 27, 2020

(Page Twenty Six) Dating isn't about trying to make a relationship work


Chapter Two: Dating isn't about trying to make a relationship work

A major problem with confusing Dating to be same as marriage, is leading to the common western believe of

1. "Dating is about trying to make a relationship work"
2. "Dating is about love and commitment" and
3. "Dating is a serious, committed and exclusive relationship"

But those western views are wrong, because Dating is only socializing with romantic intent, not sufficient to make two people life partner, sexual mate, romantically together or even exclusive

Dating is about

1. Socializing with romantic intent to find a relationship that works for both of you, with a person you want to be with and he/she wants to be with you too
(Looking for a serious relationship and finding the one)

or

2. Just a bit of fun.
(Looking for a causal relationship)

3. During the process of (1) or (2) above when/if you found the person you want to be with and he/she wants to be with you too and the relationship works for both of you. (Found the one) Then you two get together, becoming a couple, spouse or married, thus, your relationship becomes more than just dating between friends.

The concept of "Dating is about trying to make a relationship work", "Dating is about love and commitment" and "Dating is a serious, committed and exclusive relationship" might sound very find, good, responsible and romantic, but take a step back, looking at the big picture, we discover that these concepts are wolves disguise as a sheep and is one of the most sickening, disgusting, toxic and disturbing ideal and are three of the major reasons, the west got the highest rate of bad and unhealthy relationships in the world and as a result, also the highest rate of abuse to women and divorce

Why? Let Cupid explain






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