Guys that are more dating experienced are more likely to find a situation where, the girls they are interest in are less likely to find them creepy, but it is usually the girls that they are not interest in, but somehow think, he is interest in her that finds him creepy. Why? If a guy is for example a successful womanizer that just wants to play the field and never wants to settle down, he is more likely to know that for girls, it is more about how a guy make her feel romantically and know how to avoid letting a girl felt for him to be creepy, from her subjective point of view. As a result, it is just like, when a girl is going out with a guy on a first date, she is more likely to present the best version of herself, spending much time to look nice, when a successful womanizer comes across a girl that he is interest in, he is more likely to present himself in the manner that women are romantically interest in, via knowing the sort of feeling she is looking for and know what to do, to avoid falling under the creepy category, within a woman's subjective view. But just like when a girl, if she is meeting with a guy, she is not at all romantically interest in, she is not going to put that effort into her appearance for him, when a womanizer came across e.g. an ugly girl that he is not interest in, he is not going to make sure that he is presenting himself in a manner that make him seem "not creepy", from a woman's subjective point of view. In this instance, if the ugly girl for some reason, think the womanizer is romantically interest in her, all in a sudden, he falls into the "creepy" category.
And one type of girls, all guys need to consider filing a restraining order against
Cupid doesn't mean to sound rude but, (1) ugly girls are more likely to misevaluate a situation to be a guy that doesn't even know she is alive, to be romantically interest in her, because ugly girls won't be getting guys, trying to chat her up or ask her out as often, they are much less experienced then their pretty counterpart in this arena, as a result, they are more likely to think a guy that doesn't even know she is alive, to be romantically interest in her (2) when a girl is more overly emotional, she is more likely to make a determination in regards to whether a guy is "creepy", based on that subjective point of view and the more emotional she is, the more likely she will be effected by that perception.
The most dangerous type of ugly girl, is those who believe you are interest in her so much, she refuses to believe otherwise, chances are she is a narcissist looking to fulfil her desire for admiration, usually when a person believe, wants to believe or want others to believe in something badly enough, they evaluate everything in a manner in coalition with what they believe in, by looking for example and constructing opinion in favor of those believe. So, it is possible she would evaluate this to be a situation where you are stalking her, simply due to you catch the same 7:30 AM bus to work like her, despite you don’t even know she is alive and give her no reason to think, you even know she exist. And she would try to persuade people to believe this is a situation where you are stalking her, she might even go to the cops and try file a police report against you for stalking her, over this.
Everything you say or do, she would try to evaluate it as something in coalition with sexual obsession with her, she might even go as far as sit close to you on the bus and convince herself or others that the reason you are sitting so close to her, is due to you try to sit close to her, due to your sexual obsession with her. If you sneeze loudly, she would say this is your attempt to try initiate conversation with her. If you are talking with your girlfriend on the cell phone, she would say you are throwing her sex signals and won’t take no for an answer.
An ugly female narcissist that is a bad person, is every inch just as dangerous as a narcissist beta male thug, in their own way, in their quest to fulfil that narcissist ego for admiration.
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