As men, we understand men a bit better, thus, we can better tell, if a guy is creepy from an objective point of view. In addition, when your mother and sister try to judge whether a guy is creepy, they might also be looking at it from an emotional point of view, thus, how he makes them felt romantically.
However, guys can also make mistake, for example, some men might have certain prejudice and maybe the guy you consider to be “not creepy” from a subjective view, knows how to put on an act, in front of other men and fool them. So, it is still possible that he might form an “objective opinion” for a man to be “not creepy” when he is “creepy” or “worse than creepy” and to form an “objective opinion” for a man to be “creepy” or “worse than creepy”, when he is “not creepy at all”!
In this instance Cupid’s opinion is that, when it comes to avoiding domestic abuse, it is better to be wrong then sorry, so, if your father or your brother disapprove, don’t date him, regardless of circumstances. If you find a guy to be “creepy” but isn’t sure whether it is an “objective opinion” or “subjective opinion” just don’t date the guy.
And all those talk about overly emotional girls getting into abusive relationship due to seen a guy that is "worse then creepy" from a objective point of view, to be "not creepy at all" from a subjective point of view, remind me of this MTV that came out when I was a senior in high school. If this MTV is a real story, wow, that is another abusive relationship waiting to happen, a few months or a few years down the track. LOL
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