Why the modern mainstream western attitude increases your chance of been in a bad and unhealthy relationship and miss out on your Mr. Right? And why western women should take a page out of Asian’s Dating attitude?
In addition, (2) traditional western value believe true success of a woman is measure by whether she got a man, all else is irrelevant, even if she is a successful business woman, if she got no man, traditional western value still belief she is a failure in life.
What this mean is that too frequently, western girls are led to a distorted idea of true love and happiness since a young age. Expert refer to this as "response shaping process" which is persuading one to a distorted view when they have limited or no understanding of a situation, the idea is, when a person have limited or no understanding to a situation they don't have the necessary fact to contradict what they are been persuaded to believe in (that is also how many of our western stereotype of the none west, established itself, they are constructed in an era where people are not so well educated and have limited contact with the none west), it is extremely effective amount children, which have no understanding towards anything. This dramatically increase the west’s abuse to women rate, with women, obsess with fairy tale romance, she would stay in an abusive relationship, if it contains what she belief to be of fairy tale romance characteristic or she would stay with an abusive spouse just to have a man. Most abusers try suck the female into a relationship with him via a showering of romance, however maintaining romance, might be an effective method to get a girl, but ineffective to keep a girl as it is very exhausting and not practical, especially after marriage, so, what they do next is to start attacking the girl's self confidence in her appearance, making her fear not able to find another man if she leave him, thus, keeping the girl within this abusive relationship. That is why in a lot of abusive relationship, he would call her beautiful in one second and call her ugly in the next.
(2) Christian value: the idea of a woman must get married, origin from the bible, which teach it is the duty of the women to either become a wife or a nun, while from national interest’s perspective, we should encourage people having babies (and personally, every time I see a pretty girl, I hope she find somebody so, those genes get passed down), it should not be at the expense of the women been abuse victims. Make it worse, the bible also belief a woman must be in all way submissive to her husband and her husband’s property. Until the 18th century in the UK, husband can sell their wives to other men as his property at pleasure. Until the 19th century in the UK, husbands can pimp his wife out to other men and the wife can’t say no. Such barbaric practice, within the UK, disgusted both then Asian and Arabic world. Also, such Christian value can easily to be evaluate to be the husband’s right to slap his wife around and demand for her to serve him on hand and knee, [in fact, it can be argued, the bible infer the idea that he can even, be a bum that sit on his ass all day, while his wife need to work to support him, then come home just to serve him, let him slap her around whenever he want and when he felt like it, be his whore or when he don't feel like it, he can screw around with other women, while she serve both him and his mistress on hand and knees!] whether that is the bible's intention, we don't know, but it for certain got that result and consider Christian value disallow divorce, it just make things worse.
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Topic One: The distorted western values that enhance Abusive Rate
Chapter One: Distorted traditional western value that enhance abuse to women rate
While due to the law of human evolution, by default nature men are more likely to desire power, money and status, while women are more likely to desire love, marriage and having a man. Studies found two of the main reasons, the west got the highest rate of abuse to women in the world is due to the influence of (1) Christian value and (2) Traditional western value, frequently helps to push this desire of having a man to a stage of obsession and desperation, allowing these women to be easily taken advantage of by men of bad intention.
Traditional western value belief (1) a woman’s true love and happiness is marriage and have a man, all else is irrelevant, this idea is reinforced by fairy tale, frequently ended with stuff such as "Snow White and the prince lived happily ever after" without explaining why. Take a look at women that actually married into royal family, while some do have a happy marriage, such as Kate Middleton, others such as Princess Diana, well…if that is true happiness, who want that BS? (and for younger girls that doesn’t know about Princess Diana, this link is to a biography of her life)
Traditional western value belief (1) a woman’s true love and happiness is marriage and have a man, all else is irrelevant, this idea is reinforced by fairy tale, frequently ended with stuff such as "Snow White and the prince lived happily ever after" without explaining why. Take a look at women that actually married into royal family, while some do have a happy marriage, such as Kate Middleton, others such as Princess Diana, well…if that is true happiness, who want that BS? (and for younger girls that doesn’t know about Princess Diana, this link is to a biography of her life)
In addition, (2) traditional western value believe true success of a woman is measure by whether she got a man, all else is irrelevant, even if she is a successful business woman, if she got no man, traditional western value still belief she is a failure in life.
What this mean is that too frequently, western girls are led to a distorted idea of true love and happiness since a young age. Expert refer to this as "response shaping process" which is persuading one to a distorted view when they have limited or no understanding of a situation, the idea is, when a person have limited or no understanding to a situation they don't have the necessary fact to contradict what they are been persuaded to believe in (that is also how many of our western stereotype of the none west, established itself, they are constructed in an era where people are not so well educated and have limited contact with the none west), it is extremely effective amount children, which have no understanding towards anything. This dramatically increase the west’s abuse to women rate, with women, obsess with fairy tale romance, she would stay in an abusive relationship, if it contains what she belief to be of fairy tale romance characteristic or she would stay with an abusive spouse just to have a man. Most abusers try suck the female into a relationship with him via a showering of romance, however maintaining romance, might be an effective method to get a girl, but ineffective to keep a girl as it is very exhausting and not practical, especially after marriage, so, what they do next is to start attacking the girl's self confidence in her appearance, making her fear not able to find another man if she leave him, thus, keeping the girl within this abusive relationship. That is why in a lot of abusive relationship, he would call her beautiful in one second and call her ugly in the next.
(2) Christian value: the idea of a woman must get married, origin from the bible, which teach it is the duty of the women to either become a wife or a nun, while from national interest’s perspective, we should encourage people having babies (and personally, every time I see a pretty girl, I hope she find somebody so, those genes get passed down), it should not be at the expense of the women been abuse victims. Make it worse, the bible also belief a woman must be in all way submissive to her husband and her husband’s property. Until the 18th century in the UK, husband can sell their wives to other men as his property at pleasure. Until the 19th century in the UK, husbands can pimp his wife out to other men and the wife can’t say no. Such barbaric practice, within the UK, disgusted both then Asian and Arabic world. Also, such Christian value can easily to be evaluate to be the husband’s right to slap his wife around and demand for her to serve him on hand and knee, [in fact, it can be argued, the bible infer the idea that he can even, be a bum that sit on his ass all day, while his wife need to work to support him, then come home just to serve him, let him slap her around whenever he want and when he felt like it, be his whore or when he don't feel like it, he can screw around with other women, while she serve both him and his mistress on hand and knees!] whether that is the bible's intention, we don't know, but it for certain got that result and consider Christian value disallow divorce, it just make things worse.
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