However, regarding to women that confuse romance to be love, it goes beyond feeding to her fear of not able to find another man, but he can also feed to her fear of not able to find true love.
Some women till after she finally got out of the abusive relationship, still think she and the abuser are lovers. This is a major problem. One woman in particular that Cupid remember, she been through two abusive relationships. Even after she gotten out of the abusive relationship, she still talks about caring about her abuser, when he got injured at work. And I was telling her “are you kidding me? You should be celebrating his injury with a party! And if he died as a result, you should be dancing on his grave!” When I said to the woman, she never actually experienced true romantic love in her life, she got very offended. Base on Cupid’s experience most likely it is another case of confusing romance to be love. And the abuser first uses the romance to draw her in and then make her fear leaving him, by attacking her self-worth in her appearance.
So, regarding to this woman that got offended, Cupid first gave her the exact same explanation that Cupid made within the book. In addition, Cupid add a video from YouTuber Kelly Morita. Cupid particularly like YouTube Video created by westerner girls that moved to Asia and since then converted to the Eastern view of relationships, now giving relationship advice to western girls online, due to these women can speak to western girls through personal experience and many once experienced relationship of abusive nature in the west, due to they too once had the distorted western view regarding to relationship. And right after this conversation, the woman despite not willing to admit she never experienced true romantic love with either of her ex-husbands, claims she experience real love, through the birth of her son. But later, also claim, she never experienced true romantic love, with either of her ex-husbands.
To counter this sort of effect, women need to understand romance doesn’t equal love. But it is not practical for us going to every woman and explain to them, why romance doesn’t equal love. Thus, plan B would be for women to have true experience with real romantic love. An example of such is a story told by A. Mizsei (she asked me not to use her full name) that Cupid comes across, while researching for this book
Whatever helps one out from there, it is acceptable. I also think that one should wait with starting a relationship and not cheat. But developing emotions towards a good man…it is completely another thing
Let me tell you, that I realized how bad my situation is, when I started to remember back to my ex before my abusive husband. I remembered the way he treated me, he was very kind, very gentle, very caring. I felt all those earlier emotions. I felt so much for him. Was it ‘cheating’ emotionally? Yes, But I am not feeling any shame. My husband did terrible and shameful things to me. He deserves nothing
Mizsei also made the following statement
It might be complicated when stuck in an abusive relationship. You are so drained emotionally and lone so much for any kind of real love and caring that you can easily get involved emotionally with someone else (in case you are allowed to go out of the house…pff…) And this emotion might help you to get out from there. To give you that bit of strength to leave. And there is nothing to be ashamed of it. You need love. And when you are with a partner, who robs you out of it for years, you owe NOTHING to him.
It is important to understand, Asia got just as many narcissist beta male thugs, in comparison to the west and they are doing the exact same thing western narcissist beta male thugs are doing. Yet, in Asia, much fewer women become abuse victim, as a result and even fewer stay in an abusive relationship.
Women with those distorted western value regarding to Dating, Marriage, Love and Cheating and believe in the traditional or Christian value regarding to husband and wife, are the easiest pray for narcissist beta male thugs, to entrap into an abusive relationship even in Asia, western girls that not yet to convert to our view regarding to relationship, are easy and vulnerable target for narcissist beta male thugs.
And the saddest thing is due to their distorted western view regarding to relationships, they don’t even think, they are in an abusive relationship
For example, this Russian girl, doesn’t even think her narcissist beta male thug did anything wrong and when the program host start making fun of the narcissist beta male thug, referring to him as a jailer, she is still defending him. And the saddest thing is that this narcissist beta male thug, is so afraid of her converting to Asian view regarding to relationship, just like nearly all western women living in Asia, eventually convert, he tries to restrict her from even leaving the house or having other girlfriends! On the YouTube comment board there are a lot of people angry at this ex-boyfriend of her’s
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Some women till after she finally got out of the abusive relationship, still think she and the abuser are lovers. This is a major problem. One woman in particular that Cupid remember, she been through two abusive relationships. Even after she gotten out of the abusive relationship, she still talks about caring about her abuser, when he got injured at work. And I was telling her “are you kidding me? You should be celebrating his injury with a party! And if he died as a result, you should be dancing on his grave!” When I said to the woman, she never actually experienced true romantic love in her life, she got very offended. Base on Cupid’s experience most likely it is another case of confusing romance to be love. And the abuser first uses the romance to draw her in and then make her fear leaving him, by attacking her self-worth in her appearance.
So, regarding to this woman that got offended, Cupid first gave her the exact same explanation that Cupid made within the book. In addition, Cupid add a video from YouTuber Kelly Morita. Cupid particularly like YouTube Video created by westerner girls that moved to Asia and since then converted to the Eastern view of relationships, now giving relationship advice to western girls online, due to these women can speak to western girls through personal experience and many once experienced relationship of abusive nature in the west, due to they too once had the distorted western view regarding to relationship. And right after this conversation, the woman despite not willing to admit she never experienced true romantic love with either of her ex-husbands, claims she experience real love, through the birth of her son. But later, also claim, she never experienced true romantic love, with either of her ex-husbands.
To counter this sort of effect, women need to understand romance doesn’t equal love. But it is not practical for us going to every woman and explain to them, why romance doesn’t equal love. Thus, plan B would be for women to have true experience with real romantic love. An example of such is a story told by A. Mizsei (she asked me not to use her full name) that Cupid comes across, while researching for this book
Whatever helps one out from there, it is acceptable. I also think that one should wait with starting a relationship and not cheat. But developing emotions towards a good man…it is completely another thing
Let me tell you, that I realized how bad my situation is, when I started to remember back to my ex before my abusive husband. I remembered the way he treated me, he was very kind, very gentle, very caring. I felt all those earlier emotions. I felt so much for him. Was it ‘cheating’ emotionally? Yes, But I am not feeling any shame. My husband did terrible and shameful things to me. He deserves nothing
Mizsei also made the following statement
It might be complicated when stuck in an abusive relationship. You are so drained emotionally and lone so much for any kind of real love and caring that you can easily get involved emotionally with someone else (in case you are allowed to go out of the house…pff…) And this emotion might help you to get out from there. To give you that bit of strength to leave. And there is nothing to be ashamed of it. You need love. And when you are with a partner, who robs you out of it for years, you owe NOTHING to him.
It is important to understand, Asia got just as many narcissist beta male thugs, in comparison to the west and they are doing the exact same thing western narcissist beta male thugs are doing. Yet, in Asia, much fewer women become abuse victim, as a result and even fewer stay in an abusive relationship.
Women with those distorted western value regarding to Dating, Marriage, Love and Cheating and believe in the traditional or Christian value regarding to husband and wife, are the easiest pray for narcissist beta male thugs, to entrap into an abusive relationship even in Asia, western girls that not yet to convert to our view regarding to relationship, are easy and vulnerable target for narcissist beta male thugs.
And the saddest thing is due to their distorted western view regarding to relationships, they don’t even think, they are in an abusive relationship
For example, this Russian girl, doesn’t even think her narcissist beta male thug did anything wrong and when the program host start making fun of the narcissist beta male thug, referring to him as a jailer, she is still defending him. And the saddest thing is that this narcissist beta male thug, is so afraid of her converting to Asian view regarding to relationship, just like nearly all western women living in Asia, eventually convert, he tries to restrict her from even leaving the house or having other girlfriends! On the YouTube comment board there are a lot of people angry at this ex-boyfriend of her’s
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