Been from the most romantic country in the world, French women has long learned Romance is cheap and words such as “You are my goddess” or those big teddy bears that says “I heart you” are just empty words. It has gone to an extend where French women doesn’t even find that romantic anymore, due to some women still dream of having a knight in shinny armor protecting her. In Taiwan, a lot of French girls say “When the world says that France is romantic, French people literally doesn’t know what the world is talking about.” Even French men in Taiwan says the same
This reminds me of a funny story. This Japanese girl spend one semester as an exchange student in the US and was flirting with this American guy in one of her class, after returning to Japan, they still flirt within exchanging emails. Then the American guy went to Japan to visit her and discover she got two boyfriends (open relationship) and he got really angry. The Japanese girl got really annoyed and said “I never agreed to be in a relationship with you.” And the American guy asked “What about all the flirting” and the Japanese girls just said “That is just kidding around between friends”
So, what is Love?
There are many forms of Love in the world. But, ultimately, love is a form of like. It is like when you say “I Love French Fries” or “I Love my puppy.” It is a form of like. You like something so much, you need using the term Love, to describe it.
Romantic Love is a situation where you like a person in a romantic sense, so much, you need to use the term “Love” to describe it. Loving Romance and Loving a person, are two very different things.
There is nothing wrong about liking romance, but it is important, not confusing romance to be love
Romance doesn’t equal Love, is something Mary Beth Haglin need to learn the hard way
What constitute as success, is rather abstract.
There are three types of success including, positive success, negative success and meaningless success. And there are some successes, a person is better off without.
What is a positive success? A positive success is a success that provide a positive contribution to the peace, harmony or justice of yourself, society or others, without violating the principle of Peace, Harmony or Justice.
What is a negative success? A success that violates the principle of peace, harmony or justice of yourself, society or other.
What is a meaningless success? A success that neither contribute nor cause disturbance to the principle of Peace, Harmony or Justice
Thus, an example of a positive success, turning a small business into a multi-million-dollar enterprise (positive to you) or a doctor managing to save the life of an entire village (positive to society) or when a kid from a poor family, made it into Harvard University on a full scholarship. (positive to you). These are good successes.
A negative success is for example, managing to make an abusive relationship last for forty years (negative to you) or successfully spreading a lie about somebody in school (negative to others). These are bad successes.
A meaningless success is for example, right now I got a game on my computer, I managed to upgrade my avatar to level four. So what? Big deal.
On the other hand, what is failure?
Failure can also be split into "Positive Failure", "Negative Failure" and "Meaningless Failure"
Positive failure: Due to such failure, it avoids causing disturbance to peace, harmony or justice, for example, when the terrorist’s plan to bomb a shopping mall fail.
Negative failure: Due to such failure, an act that cause disturbance to peace, harmony or justice took place, for example, when most of the world listen to the World Health Organization on the Corona Virus, but it turns out, the World Health Organization has now gone corrupt and is giving out bad advice to advantage the China Communist Party.
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This reminds me of a funny story. This Japanese girl spend one semester as an exchange student in the US and was flirting with this American guy in one of her class, after returning to Japan, they still flirt within exchanging emails. Then the American guy went to Japan to visit her and discover she got two boyfriends (open relationship) and he got really angry. The Japanese girl got really annoyed and said “I never agreed to be in a relationship with you.” And the American guy asked “What about all the flirting” and the Japanese girls just said “That is just kidding around between friends”
So, what is Love?
There are many forms of Love in the world. But, ultimately, love is a form of like. It is like when you say “I Love French Fries” or “I Love my puppy.” It is a form of like. You like something so much, you need using the term Love, to describe it.
Romantic Love is a situation where you like a person in a romantic sense, so much, you need to use the term “Love” to describe it. Loving Romance and Loving a person, are two very different things.
There is nothing wrong about liking romance, but it is important, not confusing romance to be love
Romance doesn’t equal Love, is something Mary Beth Haglin need to learn the hard way
In regards to having a man and success and failure
Having a man doesn’t equal been successful in life or successful in love life.What constitute as success, is rather abstract.
There are three types of success including, positive success, negative success and meaningless success. And there are some successes, a person is better off without.
What is a positive success? A positive success is a success that provide a positive contribution to the peace, harmony or justice of yourself, society or others, without violating the principle of Peace, Harmony or Justice.
What is a negative success? A success that violates the principle of peace, harmony or justice of yourself, society or other.
What is a meaningless success? A success that neither contribute nor cause disturbance to the principle of Peace, Harmony or Justice
Thus, an example of a positive success, turning a small business into a multi-million-dollar enterprise (positive to you) or a doctor managing to save the life of an entire village (positive to society) or when a kid from a poor family, made it into Harvard University on a full scholarship. (positive to you). These are good successes.
A negative success is for example, managing to make an abusive relationship last for forty years (negative to you) or successfully spreading a lie about somebody in school (negative to others). These are bad successes.
A meaningless success is for example, right now I got a game on my computer, I managed to upgrade my avatar to level four. So what? Big deal.
On the other hand, what is failure?
Failure can also be split into "Positive Failure", "Negative Failure" and "Meaningless Failure"
Positive failure: Due to such failure, it avoids causing disturbance to peace, harmony or justice, for example, when the terrorist’s plan to bomb a shopping mall fail.
Negative failure: Due to such failure, an act that cause disturbance to peace, harmony or justice took place, for example, when most of the world listen to the World Health Organization on the Corona Virus, but it turns out, the World Health Organization has now gone corrupt and is giving out bad advice to advantage the China Communist Party.
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