Meaningless failure: Such failure got no effect on peace, harmony or justice. For example, I was playing a computer game the other day, but I didn’t make it pass level six. Such failure is meaningless.
There is some success, you are better off without and sometime the failure is a good thing. It reminds me of an episode on the sitcom Seinfeld, where George accidentally got a busboy fire from the job. Three days later, that restaurant had an explosion and everybody died, but because that busboy got fired, he didn’t die in that explosion, thus, for that busboy, failing to keep his job was a positive failure. Thus, some success, you are better without.
In addition, some success might be very important to a person, while others mean very little for them. For example, for most Gen Y women, by the age of 25 the most important thing for them is finding a man and settle down. For most Gen Y men, finding a girl and settle down and starting a family is not a life priority, what we want is power, money and status.
In that instance, Cupid’s advice is don’t let your desire turn into an obsession. Otherwise, it would destroy you. Many women that become victim of abusive relationship, it is their desire of having a man turning into an unhealthy obsession, due to the influence of traditional western values and Christian values and it is possible, it just make you miss out on your actual soul mate, when you are obsessively clinching onto this abusive relationship. A woman that is not obsessed with having a man, are more likely to find her Mr. Right and less likely to become an abusive victim.
At this instance, there is a song, created by the Shoaling Temple, created in partnership with Hong Kong music industry and sang by Hong Kong mega star, Andy Lau that Cupid would like to share with you (English subtitle included)
For example, in Thailand thugs kidnap women to be their wife against her will, is a major problem. These women are forced into these marital relationships against her will. Yet, what is even more disgusting is, even under these circumstances, if for example, she gets romantically involved with another man, due to he is able to get her out. Some western women, accused such action of "victims of abusive force relationship" as "Cheating" shaming her for it, maybe informing her abuser of it, such action of accusing a woman of Cheating and shaming her for it under the circumstances or informing her abuser of it, is sickening, disgusting and disturbing and completely unacceptable and completely inappropriate.
Despite feminist argues sexism is the product of "men oppressing women" it can be argued that theory is wrong.
Feminist theory is in coalition with Marxism believing in continue struggling between class, to that extend, feminist theory believes in continue gender struggle. But Marxism theory is wrong, in some society and company class struggle exist, but in others it doesn't. For example, Google employee is some of the happiest working for Google and in return, Google give its employee much benefit, but in some companies, struggle between the Executives and the worker union continue. In society, some dictatorship is welcome by its people and rule in public interest, while others practice tyranny, resulting in the people eventually hit back or continue been oppressed, for example in ancient China most Emperors rule in public interest and was loved by its people and the Emperors that practice tyranny, some was overthrown. European Kings prior to constitutional monarchy, was mostly tyrants, but until the age of Enlightenment, people put up with it.
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There is some success, you are better off without and sometime the failure is a good thing. It reminds me of an episode on the sitcom Seinfeld, where George accidentally got a busboy fire from the job. Three days later, that restaurant had an explosion and everybody died, but because that busboy got fired, he didn’t die in that explosion, thus, for that busboy, failing to keep his job was a positive failure. Thus, some success, you are better without.
In addition, some success might be very important to a person, while others mean very little for them. For example, for most Gen Y women, by the age of 25 the most important thing for them is finding a man and settle down. For most Gen Y men, finding a girl and settle down and starting a family is not a life priority, what we want is power, money and status.
In that instance, Cupid’s advice is don’t let your desire turn into an obsession. Otherwise, it would destroy you. Many women that become victim of abusive relationship, it is their desire of having a man turning into an unhealthy obsession, due to the influence of traditional western values and Christian values and it is possible, it just make you miss out on your actual soul mate, when you are obsessively clinching onto this abusive relationship. A woman that is not obsessed with having a man, are more likely to find her Mr. Right and less likely to become an abusive victim.
At this instance, there is a song, created by the Shoaling Temple, created in partnership with Hong Kong music industry and sang by Hong Kong mega star, Andy Lau that Cupid would like to share with you (English subtitle included)
Chapter Two: Distorted western values regarding to Dating, Marriage and Cheating
It isn't about whether you find yourself in a Dating Relationship, but whether you consent out of your own free will, in a clear state of mind.
Failing to understand this, increase abuse to women rate, significantlyFor example, in Thailand thugs kidnap women to be their wife against her will, is a major problem. These women are forced into these marital relationships against her will. Yet, what is even more disgusting is, even under these circumstances, if for example, she gets romantically involved with another man, due to he is able to get her out. Some western women, accused such action of "victims of abusive force relationship" as "Cheating" shaming her for it, maybe informing her abuser of it, such action of accusing a woman of Cheating and shaming her for it under the circumstances or informing her abuser of it, is sickening, disgusting and disturbing and completely unacceptable and completely inappropriate.
Despite feminist argues sexism is the product of "men oppressing women" it can be argued that theory is wrong.
Feminist theory is in coalition with Marxism believing in continue struggling between class, to that extend, feminist theory believes in continue gender struggle. But Marxism theory is wrong, in some society and company class struggle exist, but in others it doesn't. For example, Google employee is some of the happiest working for Google and in return, Google give its employee much benefit, but in some companies, struggle between the Executives and the worker union continue. In society, some dictatorship is welcome by its people and rule in public interest, while others practice tyranny, resulting in the people eventually hit back or continue been oppressed, for example in ancient China most Emperors rule in public interest and was loved by its people and the Emperors that practice tyranny, some was overthrown. European Kings prior to constitutional monarchy, was mostly tyrants, but until the age of Enlightenment, people put up with it.
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