The western world got the highest rate of bad and unhealthy relationships in the world and as a result the highest rate of middle age divorce and abuse to women in the world (also most political correctness insanity with protecting women from domestic abuse that in the long run only helps to enhance abuse towards women, by screwing over none abusive nice guys that got much to lose from the political correctness insanity, driving women into the arms of abusers, with more good guys rather staying single) This is because the western world got some very flawed idea about relationships. To effectively tackle the problems of high rate of bad and unhealthy relationships, we need to first understand what are these flawed views and change people's view on love, dating, marriage, cheating and ethic of relationship.

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(Page One) Topic One: The distorted western values that enhance Abusive Rate

Why the modern mainstream western attitude increases your chance of been in a bad and unhealthy relationship and miss out on your Mr. Right...

Monday, April 27, 2020

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Two people seize been in a Dating Relationship: When such dating relationship is terminated

Two people seize been in a Couple Relationship: When such None Spouse Couple Relationship, Unwed Spouse Relationship or Marital Relationship terminate.

Two people seize been in a Spouse Relationship: When such Unwed Spouse Relationship and Marital Relationship terminate.

Two people seize been in a Marital Relationship: When such Marital Relationship terminate.

Other then what mentioned above, other types of romantic relationship include

An Open Relationship is when two people that are in a romantic relationship, out of their own free will, in a clear state of mind via mutual agreement, agree to be physically and/or emotionally non-exclusive.

A Closed Relationship is when two people that are in a romantic relationship, out of their own free will, in a clear state of mind via mutual agreement, agree to be physically and/or emotionally exclusive. (but never agree to be in an emotionally exclusive relationship, with a person you are not spouse with)

Standard Relationship when there is no additional agreement for the relationship to be exclusively or none exclusive, thus the relationship remain in its default status

However, don’t confuse Not Cheating and Open Relationship as the same. All cases of Open Relationship are not Cheating, but not all cases of Not Cheating is Open Relationship.

For example, despite both Just Dating and Just Dating None Exclusively, are physically and emotionally none exclusive relationship, there are still significant differences, one is physically and emotionally none exclusive due to Dating is not sufficient to make it exclusive, but there is no agreement for it to be None Exclusive. (adding to the fact via dating culture dating is exclusive, you are at risk of misleading them to believe it is exclusive if that is not your intent.) The other there are mutual agreement for it to be None Exclusive.

But always remember to make your intention clear!!!

This is a mistake even Asian people make especially those in their early 20s. Many younger Asians when they are Dating, they merely consent to “be in a relationship” but never specify what they meant by it. I remember this episode on a Dating show, the girl consented to become the guy’s girlfriend after they been friends for six months. But never make it clear, what they meant by it. For the girl, it only means “Just Dating Exclusively as Just Acquaintances, but not married, spouses or a couple” What the guy mean is “None De facto Unwed Spouse”. So, the girl won’t even tell him where she lives, not knowing him well enough, she fears that he might be a psycho and is still having emotional affair with other guys and let her ex-boyfriend sleep over at her place. For the boyfriend which meant “None De facto Unwed Spouse” he evaluate this as a situation where his life partner/sexual mate won’t even let him know where she lives and still having emotional affair with other guys and still letting her ex-boyfriend sleep over at her place and act just like how anybody would act, when their life partner/sexual mate is acting this way, even burst into tears. But for the girl that only meant “Just Dating Exclusively as Just Acquaintances, but not married, spouses or a couple” it only led her to see him as a nut job.

(Cupid's advice: Never consent to be Spouses, not even Unwed Spouses, till you are prepared and want having children together. Never consent to be Unwed Spouse, unless the two of you are actually in an Unwed Spouse Relationship or Marital Relationship)

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