The western world got the highest rate of bad and unhealthy relationships in the world and as a result the highest rate of middle age divorce and abuse to women in the world (also most political correctness insanity with protecting women from domestic abuse that in the long run only helps to enhance abuse towards women, by screwing over none abusive nice guys that got much to lose from the political correctness insanity, driving women into the arms of abusers, with more good guys rather staying single) This is because the western world got some very flawed idea about relationships. To effectively tackle the problems of high rate of bad and unhealthy relationships, we need to first understand what are these flawed views and change people's view on love, dating, marriage, cheating and ethic of relationship.

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(Page One) Topic One: The distorted western values that enhance Abusive Rate

Why the modern mainstream western attitude increases your chance of been in a bad and unhealthy relationship and miss out on your Mr. Right...

Monday, April 27, 2020

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A lot of things the west considered as Cheating “isn’t Cheating!”

Due to

1. Failing to understand it doesn’t count as Dating, Couple, Spouse or Married, unless both parties agreed out of their own free will, in a clear state of mind and

2. Confusing Dating to be same as marriage

Many westerners accuse people of Cheating over situation that isn’t Cheating and shame them for it. These are sickening, problematic, jealous, controlling, possessive, psychotic, disturbing and complete inappropriate behavior that is deem appropriate and acceptable by the mainstream western society, due to confusing Dating to be same as marriage and failing to understand it doesn’t count unless both party mutually consented, out of their own free will in a clear state of mind.

Definition of Cheating

Cheating is defined as "Breaking the rule to gain an unfair advantage"

Physical Affair and Physical Cheating

Physical Affair means, to be on Dating Term, Couple Term, Spouse Term or Married Term or to be in a sexual relationship with a person.

Physical Cheating means having a physical affair with a 3rd party while been in a Physically Exclusive Relationship with a 2nd Party, thus broke the rule, to gain an unfair advantage, via breaking a commitment

Interesting fact, most Asian people consider flirting as a form of sexual relationship. Japanese people consider most form of physical touching between none blood relative as sexual, including a hug (I guess that also mean in Japan, been hug entitle you to sue your boss for sexual harassment? LOL)

Emotional Affair and Emotional Cheating

Emotional Affair mean, to be in a Dating Relationship, Couple Relationship, Spouse Relationship or Marital Relationship, with a person, regardless to whether you are on Dating Term, Couple Term, Spouse Term or Married Term.

Emotional Cheating mean having an emotional affair with a 3rd party while been in an Emotionally Exclusive Relationship with a 2nd Party, thus broke the rule, to gain an unfair advantage, via breaking a commitment.

Cheating in a metaphorical sense

“Cheating in a metaphorical sense” is not real Cheating. This is for example, sometime two people can be in a Couple Relationship, but they never consent to be a Couple, maybe didn’t even consent to be exclusive or dating. So, they are in a Couple Relationship, but are not a Couple and never even consented to be Dating. Thus, if he/she is dating a 3rd party that is Cheating on the 2nd party in a metaphorical sense, it is like Cheating, but it isn’t Cheating. However, that isn’t necessary unethical, for example, what about Thailand women that are kidnapped by thugs and forced to be the thugs’ wife against their will?

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