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Within the video below, as a westerner that live in Japan what sort of dating advice Kelly got for westerners looking for a serious relationship?

Well, she gave a whole range of advice. But like most westerners living in Asia, she doesn't confuse Dating to be the same as marriage, hence one of her advice is

1. Don't go on a Date expecting a relationship.

2. And in addition, this one she is 110% correct on Asian people. That is, when it comes to Dating, Asian people like to take it slow (we don't confuse Dating to be same as marriage and we like to get to know somebody before deciding whether we want to be a Couple) if you go on a date and expecting a relationship ASAP and move very fast like with Western Dating, (because the west confuse Dating to be same as marriage, of course things moves very fast) most Asian people would get freak out and break up with you ASAP, even if they are Dating to seek a serious relationship.

(And I want to share a personal story with you, when I was younger and living in the west, every time I’ve seen a potential relationship, it freaks me out and I run away screaming! I mean, I don’t mind the Dating part, I mean what guy doesn’t like having a pretty girl in his arm and if there can be a bit of penetration, even better. But this whole been couple thing, scare the crap out of me, even dating exclusively is a bit too much. This whole “If you are Dating, you are a Couple” thing is freaky. In fact, an astrologist said I will marry a celebrity one day. I was laughing so hard until one day that exact pop star made a free appearance in the suburb I live in, I was so freaked out, I put my dog in a motel and spend the weekend in a hotel room in the city. That is right, it freaks me out, even if she is an insanely hot pop star. To be more precise, the astrology say couple or business partner, so there is a 50% chance it means, business partner and having a rich pop star friend, to e.g. be a silent partner that invest in a business, might not be such a bad thing, but that couple thing, literally freak me out that much.)

DATING IN JAPAN 101// EXPERIENCES, TIPS, & ADVICE FROM A FOREIGNER 31 Mar 2018 by LoveLyzKelly

Video Two 

And Kelly seem to be way happier in her love life than most western girls, due to most western girls that are living in the west, treats Dating like marriage, with guys they just met for 2 weeks and been on at most 3 dates!

And the most important thing in a relationship, isn't whether a relationship last the long run, but whether it is a happy and healthy relationship (although happy relationships are more likely to lead to marriage and less likely to divorce) and Kelly seem way happier compare to most western girls.

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