The western world got the highest rate of bad and unhealthy relationships in the world and as a result the highest rate of middle age divorce and abuse to women in the world (also most political correctness insanity with protecting women from domestic abuse that in the long run only helps to enhance abuse towards women, by screwing over none abusive nice guys that got much to lose from the political correctness insanity, driving women into the arms of abusers, with more good guys rather staying single) This is because the western world got some very flawed idea about relationships. To effectively tackle the problems of high rate of bad and unhealthy relationships, we need to first understand what are these flawed views and change people's view on love, dating, marriage, cheating and ethic of relationship.

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(Page One) Topic One: The distorted western values that enhance Abusive Rate

Why the modern mainstream western attitude increases your chance of been in a bad and unhealthy relationship and miss out on your Mr. Right...

Thursday, April 30, 2020

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At this stage, Cupid also remember this MTV from China

In the beginning of the MTV it starts with the following story. English Translation is written in red

從前,有一個女孩,愛上了一個男子。於是,她每天向上天祈禱,希望能再見到他。終於,他的誠心,打動了上天

Once upon a time, a girl fell in love with a boy. So, she prays to the gods every day, hoping to see him again. Finally, her faithfulness, moved the gods.

你想再見到那個男人嗎?你要放棄你現在的一切,還要修煉一千年,才能見他一面你不後悔嗎?

Buddha: You want to see that boy again? You need to give up everything you got and meditate for one thousand years, just to see him once. Won't you regrade it?

我不後悔。

Girl: I won't regrade it

After the MTV, the gods and the girl had another conversation

你是不是還想跟他再一起? 那你還得修煉

Buddha: Do you still want to be with him? Then, you still need to meditate?

我是很想   但是不必了    這已經很好了    愛他   並不一定要和他白頭偕老

Girl: I really want to, but that won't be necessary. This is already very good. Love him, doesn't mean we need to grow old together

很好有個男孩可以少等一千年了    她為了能夠看你一眼    已經修練了兩千年

Buddha: Very good, there is a boy that can wait for one thousand years less. To be able to see you once, he has meditated for two thousand years.

The MTV is on this link

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There is a Chinese Poem, I would like to share with you. It doesn’t sound so nice in English translation, but sound pretty lovely in Chinese.

English translation is written in red

睡在你床上的不一定爱你,睡在你病床边的才是真爱

缘分不多,爱情不易,不卑不亢,不离不弃。如果爱我,请抱紧我,如果不爱,请速速远离。贫困时才识朋友,大难时才知真爱,睡在你床上的不一定爱你。睡在你病床边的才是真情。享一时之欢无法过一世之苦,渡苦海劫波才修得吾爱永恒。

Poem Name: Those who sleep next to you doesn’t necessary love you, true love is the one that sleep by your sick bed.

Relationship that are meant to be is rare,
Love is not easy,
Won’t take advantage of me and won’t take advantage of you
Won’t abandon me.
If you love me,
Please hold me tight.
If you don’t love me,
Please let me go. 
True friends are those who will be there during your hard time
Only when thing is most horrible can you know if he/she is your true love.
Those who sleep next to you doesn’t necessary love you, 
true love is the one that sleep by your sick bed.
A moment of joy cannot survive a lifetime of hardship,
Only when you went through the hard times together can you know is it lasting true love.

I saw this poem within this YouTube Video

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