Why the modern mainstream western attitude increases your chance of been in a bad and unhealthy relationship and miss out on your Mr. Right? And why western women should take a page out of Asian’s Dating attitude?

Introduction

Despite here is the west, we fancy ourselves to treat women better, compare to the none west. In reality all studies prove, issue associate with domestic abuse is way more serious compare to the none west. For example, amount Japanese women that got involve with Caucasian men, four times more, report domestic abuse to the police, compare to Japanese women involve with Japanese men. According to the US Justice Department, women married to Latino men are most likely to suffer abuse, follow by those married to African American men, follow by Caucasian men, women married to Arabic men only rank 4^th most likely to suffer abuse, while those who are involve from men of other ethnicity, are even less likely to experience abuse problem. It is also found, western women are less likely to report abuse, compare to women of other ethnic group and more likely to remain with an abusive Spouse. And in Asia a great number of western women that use to say “Good men are hard to find” while in the west, in Asia they start saying “western men treat women like crap and in Asia they treat women much better.” Furthermore, an Australian study discover, if both husband and wife work, in a western household, we more likely to see the wife still doing all the house work, while in Asian household they divide the workload equally. All of these evidences overthrow the mainstream western view of thinking the west treat women well and none west treat women like crap and provide evidential prove, issue of domestic abuse in the west, is way worse, compare to the none west. And western women are way more likely to endure and under report abuse, compare to none western women. A study in Australia discover 1/3 Australia woman experience abuse with an abusive husband or boyfriend. In the UK the rate is 1/4.

However, these are no picnic for men also. And an interesting factor is that most men that slap women around, suffer little or no consequence for their bad behavior, it is usually the decent guys that never hit a woman that get screw over, including unfair payment in alimony or division of property. And 2/3 of all divorce are proposed by women.

These issues are the result of the west got some very distorted view regarding to relationships, leading to bad relationship practice amount both men and women. These can be split into multiple arenas including the attitude of traditional western value and Christian value. Women’s attitude towards romance and love. And the current mainstream western views regarding to dating, marriage and Cheating.

In this book, we are going to explore each of these problems one by one. In topic One, we will explore the six main problematic view regarding to relationship, which lead both men and women to sink into unhealthy relationship. We will especially look at how it encourages a culture that led many women to sink into abusive relationship and stay with abusive spouses. And how it leads decent guys to unfairly get screw over in alimony and child support, while abusers, are able to continue abusing women with little or no consequences.

In topic two, we be looking at how these problems are enhancing the rate of bad and unhealthy relationship, including abusive relationships towards women and the west’s high divorce rate, where it is only decent guys getting screw.

In topic three, we be looking at what are some of the healthier view regarding to relationships.

To better understand these issues, help to prevent people to fall under this pattern of negative cycle. 

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