While the west believe it is the none west that believe "A husband is a King and a wife is a servant" in reality, such problem is actually most serious in the west and is frequently way worse than merely a case of "A husband is a King and wife is a servant". Statistic research from Australia found, in most Asian household where both husband and wife work, the husband and wife divide the majority of housework 50:50. In most Caucasian household, when both husband and wife work, the wife still does 100% of the housework. A lot of western men that actively seek Asian women for marriage due to their believe of "Unlike western women, Asian women still know a wife should serve and honor her husband" are shocked, by how none submissive and fierce Asian women are in comparison to western women.
'Submit to your husbands': Women told to endure domestic violence in the name of God
Evangelical churches believe men should control women. It can lead to domestic violence
'Submit to your husbands': Women told to endure domestic violence in the name of God
Evangelical churches believe men should control women. It can lead to domestic violence
What most abusers are like?
Most abusers got the following three characteristics
1. He is a narcissist: As a narcissist he got a strong desire for admiration and that might lead him to have a strong desire for admiration of women romantically
2. He is a beta male: But as a beta male, he got a lot of trouble getting girls
3. He is a thug: But as a thug, he doesn’t care who he hurt, getting what he wants.
Thus, he would target women that he doesn’t love or care about, but this woman got strong desire for love and marriage and try to entrap her into an abusive relationship, to fulfill his narcissist ego, with no regards who he hurt, getting what he want, including, how he might hurt the woman, as a result.
It is important to note beta male is a highly abstract concept. Everybody is in one way an alpha male and in another way beta male. In real life, nobody fully fit under the teen movie jock and nerd stereotype, we are all jocks in one way and nerd in another, but let’s say people really fit under the stereotype. The jocks, are alpha male in arena such as been a cop or soldier, but wanting them to run the economy, they become the beta male. The nerds are the alpha male, in arena of running the economy, hospital, even government! But put them onto a battle field, they suddenly become a beta male. So, when I talk about "beta male" here, what I mean is their "beta male" side’s influence. Their beta male side, make it harder for them to get and keep a girl. Jocks, is great with love at first sight, because they are masculine, but disadvantage with love at second sight, because they are stupid. Nerds do horrible at love at first sight, because they are physically weak, but at love at second sight, they do great due to they are smart.
Regarding to the theory of ethic: Is it really the duty of a woman to marry?
Regarding to ethic theory, I favor German philosopher Immanuel Kant, Chinese philosopher Confucius and the Buddhist concept of Karma.
Immanuel Kent believe the principle of ethic need to consider both the mean and the end. The mean is the event that has taken place, the end is the result.
For example, if you are driving on a freeway with a 100 km/h speed limit and you are driving within the speed limit and this person high on drug, suddenly jump in front of your car, before you or any reasonable person can stop, causing your car to hit him, leading him to die on the spot, under the circumstances, you did nothing wrong.
However, if you are driving at the speed of 100 km/h at a 40 km/h speed limit zone and that person die as a result, what you did is wrong.
Both cases, you hit somebody with your car, resulting in that person’s death, but due to the difference circumstances, in one case you are at fault, in the other, you did nothing wrong.
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