The western world got the highest rate of bad and unhealthy relationships in the world and as a result the highest rate of middle age divorce and abuse to women in the world (also most political correctness insanity with protecting women from domestic abuse that in the long run only helps to enhance abuse towards women, by screwing over none abusive nice guys that got much to lose from the political correctness insanity, driving women into the arms of abusers, with more good guys rather staying single) This is because the western world got some very flawed idea about relationships. To effectively tackle the problems of high rate of bad and unhealthy relationships, we need to first understand what are these flawed views and change people's view on love, dating, marriage, cheating and ethic of relationship.

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(Page One) Topic One: The distorted western values that enhance Abusive Rate

Why the modern mainstream western attitude increases your chance of been in a bad and unhealthy relationship and miss out on your Mr. Right...

Monday, April 27, 2020

(Page Twenty) Topic Two: How the Western distorted views enhance bad and unhealthy relationship rate

And whenever, I talk about these issues, the first image that pop into my head has always been these two particular scenes from the sitcom “Two and a Half Man”

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Until they killed off Charlie Harper, Two and a Half Man was probably the best satire sitcoms of the era.

Topic Two: How the Western distorted views enhance bad and unhealthy relationship rate

Chapter One: It helps trap people in unhappy relationships, sometimes abusive relationships.

When it comes to finding a Spouse, one of the best things to do is to socialize. Be friend people you are romantically interest in and later, if both of you want to, you can become friends that are Dating or even later down the road, maybe even a Couple. Even when you are Dating somebody or you are part of a None Spouse Couple keep going out with other guys/girls you are interest in as just friends, in case your relationship with your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn’t work out. If you and the person you are Dating, are not yet a Couple, therefore, not yet romantically together, you are not breaking a commitment to dump your boyfriend/girlfriend for somebody else. The only problem is, most people won’t have the heart to do something like that to a friend, thus, dumping your boyfriend/girlfriend for somebody else, most likely, would only happen, if you are dating merely an acquaintance.

That is not Cheating, because, until you mutually consent to be Spouses, you are not life partner nor sexual mate, thus, you are not in an emotionally exclusive relationship, so, going out with other guys/girls you like as just friends, despite is an emotional affair, it isn’t Cheating. But due to the culture of confusing Dating to be same as marriage, those that are not Cheating, are frequently been seen as Cheating in the west

Most Asian adults especially those who desire for marriage would have been in Dating Relationship, with more people, compare to most Westerners and frequently be in a Dating Relationship with multiple people at once, prior to been on Spouse Term, but the number of person they be on Dating Term with, is very limited (on average 3) and very few be on Dating Term with multiple people at once.

This Dating method is popular amount single western female that migrate to Asia and converted to the Asian Dating views. Western women are more likely to desire love and marriage. So, they actively put them self out on the Dating scene and as a result, after converting to Asian Dating view, they will like most Asian people that got a strong desire to find love and marriage, be socializing with multiple romantic potentials as just friends, even when they are on Dating Term, with a person, but keep it none sexual with her other romantic potentials they are going out with as just friends

In the west, this strong desire for love and marriage, frequently lead women to become abuse victim, due to not understanding, going out with other guys as just friends, when you got a boyfriend isn't Cheating. And thinking all Cheating in relationship to be wrong.

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